oh and ...

this is an example of how hurtful she can be. she went on and on about her two friends having a birthday and how they weren't even going to have cakes because their mothers had said they weren't going to do cakes this year. she begged me to help her get her two friends cakes. so tonight I baked two cakes while she was at Youth so she'd have two cakes to bring to her friends at school tomorrow for their birthday.

when she had stolen the phone and she was standing their defensively her eyes going everywhere and I kept telling her to look at me which she eventually did, rightly or wrongly I asked her how could she repay me for making these cakes by doing something like this right after.

and she said .... YOU didn't do anything. you just mixed and baked them.

I could have cried.